Am I An Interesting Person?
Wednesday, 7 January 2009Any of you have a similar experience to this? You’re with a group of people, some parents, some not, and your conversation is locked onto a disgusting topic - maybe diaper explosions or vomit. Or maybe not necessarily disgusting, but just mundane- which kind of sippy cup works the best or how many times are you up with the baby each night? And suddenly you’re a little embarrassed, seeing the glazed-over looks in the non-parents’ eyes. Okay, to be honest, I’ve seen that same look in my husband’s eyes.
Don’t get me wrong, I think sharing parenting experiences (with anyone who’s willing to listen!) is crucial to my health and sanity. But there’s a time and a place. If I can’t ever come up with any other topics of conversation, I will eventually have the same aforementioned sanity breakdown.
Yes, the majority of my day is spent with someone unable to speak (actual words, that is). Can I, a stay-at-home mom, still be an interesting person, with knowledge of the world outside my nursery? I think so…
I try to read at least the headlines of the newspaper, and on a good day get through actual articles in several sections. Tip: Use your frequent flier miles, especially for an airline you rarely fly, to purchase magazine subscriptions. Reading Time keeps me on top of timely issues. I’ve found that a magazine is easier to throw into the diaper bag and to keep out of baby’s reach.
I’ve also always wanted to be in a book club, and suddenly was invited to join two of them this past year. I wasn’t sure how I’d fit in time to read, but somehow it’s worked out. These monthly get-togethers have been a great time to get out of the house, enjoy good conversation with other women, and use the non-mom part of my brain.
What do the rest of you do to stay “interesting”?
Photo Courtesy:
KellyK
Categories: Parenting
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After working at MagnetStreet for 7 years, I'm now a stay-at-home mom to my son Tate. I love my new life, but as a firstborn raising my firstborn, I tend to over-analyze most things. Join me as I try to figure it all out!
