You’ve decided you are not inviting children to your wedding ceremony or reception. Now, you need to let your guests know … is there an easy way to tell them?

Yes, there is. It might be one of those sticky situations in your wedding planning, but with the right wording, your wishes should be respected and your worries be put to rest.

How to communicate that children are not invited to your wedding
{without actually saying -  CHILDREN ARE NOT INVITED}

- While it really isn’t ok to say NO CHILDREN on the wedding invitation, it is ok to say something like “Adults Only” or  “Adults Only Reception” on the wedding invitation

- Another great option is to allow your mom and wedding party to spread the word for you.

- Don’t forget to use  double envelopes to clearly communicate who is invited and who isn’t.

Looking for polite ways to respond to questions about your reception choice? Try these:

‘We hope no offence is taken but due to budget restrictions, we are unable to invite your children.’

‘We thank you for understanding that we have chosen to invite only the family children to our wedding.’

A fabulously set table is a beautiful thing!

But what makes a fabulously set table? I think it has everything to do with an attention to detail!

Coordinating with your wedding theme…  choose elements and patterns and use your colors to surprise wedding guests and create a wee bit o’drama at your wedding reception tables.  From simple to elaborate…  From casual to elegant… it’s all about reflecting your style.

Martha Stewart

Put a little pizazz into your sweetheart or head table chairs with a stunning chair back pattern! Love it.

BBJ Linen chair backs

Napkins and a variation of folds hold a fascination for me.  Be them cloth or paper… I always appreciate the time and creativity of an interesting pattern and fold.  And, they contribute so much personality to the table setting.

Love the organic yet chic feel of this table setting!

How clever… using pretty rubber bands to hold down the napkins for a casual, outdoor reception. {below}

3 table settings images above

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last two images

Interested in exploring different folds?  Find a variation of napkin folds and etiquette instructions here.

As always, I appreciate you stopping by! Let me know you were here…

Hopefully the weather is cooperating with the date on the calendar and spring has actually sprung in your area!  In any case, you know what SPRING BRINGS…

flowers and sunshine and color! Oh Yeah!

Flowers at a wedding?  Of course!  But, what about decorating with edible flowers?  You can make a gorgeous and colorful statement simply by using edible flowers as garnishes along the buffet… in the salad… in the soup… and on the dessert.  Another beautiful presentation option… making ice cubes with edible flowers inside or adding colorful flower petals to a punch bowl or in the ice ring.

But, the deal with edible flowers… you need professional guidance from the pros.  You certainly don’t want pesticides and noxious plants gracing your wedding tables.  So, if you would like to grow your own and/or decorate with edible flowers, be sure to first talk with a florist {and the caterer} who specialize in edible flowers.

Flowers in ice cubes from the fun, Show Me Vegan, blog

Pomegranate Martini via Hostess with the Mostess

{Image by David Murphy & Kara Matsunaga}

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